Try this tip I love from sex educator Layla Martin. Use sandalwood or vanilla soap (both scents have been found to arouse men) and use ylang ylang candles or massage oil in the bedroom to arouse your partner. Take a shower together or run each other a bath where you can wash each other – head to toe – and create a spa experience. It’ll be more of the foreplay she needs, and it’ll give you time to rev up to a stronger erection. Take time to build the connection and intimacy before you hit the sheets. So losing weight together will really pay off.ĭo you have any advice about pre-game prep for bigger guys? It can reduce blood flow to our clitoris and make watching Tom Hardy movies almost pointless. And losing weight will lower your cholesterol and increase blood flow in a southerly direction. ![]() ![]() The good news is, losing just a few pounds can reduce your SHBG to more fun levels. It binds to your testosterone, reducing the amount of T that’s available to do fun stuff, like point out your girlfriend is loading the dishwasher wearing a low-cut vest, or give you an erection about it. The heavier you are, the more SHBG (Sex Hormone Binding Globulin) you have in your bloodstream. ![]() Let’s be clear: being overweight negatively impacts every part of sex – from how often you want sex, how easily you get an erection, right through to how much you enjoy it. Prop a pillow or a foam wedge under your hips to increase your view of the proceedings.Īre there any benefits to being a bigger guy when it comes to sex? Having her on that side of your business is best because it gives her access to the underneath of your undercarriage, which is (as you know) the most sensitive. The best position would be you lying on your back, with her between your legs, facing you. When it comes to oral sex – if your stomach is hanging down over your genitals, what’s a good way of giving your partner a clear run at things? Your partner can brace their feet against the floor to push back towards you with every thrust, doubling your efforts. Doggy Style over a couch or armchair is good. If you need a little help, try a cock ring (ideally, vibrating for extra stimulation) and use a rear-entry position that doesn’t need so much steel in your sabre. Sometimes, being overweight can mean your erections aren’t very strong. This position offers you good penetration (like doggy) but with the eye-contact of Missionary. Straddle her bottom leg and raise her top leg. Your partner lies on her side, while you kneel facing her. Spoons can be harder, so try The Pretzel. If your partner finds Girl On Top is hard on her knees, she could lie on top of you. This will let your stomach fall backwards, giving more access to your nether region. Girl On Top is great, especially if you use pillows or a wedge under your hips. If either you or your partner, or both, are overweight are there any particular positions that are better for sex? If you’re going to lick, try using a wide, flat tongue rather than a pointy tongue jabbing away like she’s a Cadbury’s Crème Egg. (The omgyes series of videos are great.) In general, sucking feels better to us than licking. Then, for oral sex, enthusiasm unfortunately doesn’t make up for a lack of technique, so take time to learn some moves. Really pay attention while you watch – it’ll massively turn her on. The clitoris has arms that extend down both sides of the labia, so many women like pressure and stimulation down the sides of their clitoris, as well as (or instead of) on the actual button. Notice where she places her fingers or her toys. The best way is to ask her to touch herself while you watch. Start by learning how to use your hands in the way she likes (not the way your ex liked, or how you assume she’ll like it). So we need six times as much foreplay as you do. For women, it takes an average of 12 minutes. Research found that men can go from arousal to orgasm in two minutes. What tips can you give us for getting it right?įoreplay is your friend. You mentioned in the previous post about if you’re feeling insecure about your body then the best method of getting over that is to be wonderful in every other aspect of sex. This time we’re getting hands-on as our favourite sex expert Kate Taylor (whose excellent website about all things sex you can find here) takes us through the practical steps that you can take to make your sexlife go with a swing if you’re a bigger guy. ![]() In the first on our series of fantastic fat sex we looked at the issues of how to get your body going when your head isn’t in the game.
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